An ode to myself and a reminiscing of a similar letter written in Feb 2021: click here to read "I will start by saying how immensely proud I am of you. For still being here. For still trying. For doing your best. Because those are really the only things you can ask of yourself sometimes. [...]
It will be gradual, but you'll stop thinking about how much better activities would be with someone else. You'll start enjoying them even when it's just you. You'll stop delaying things till you have someone to share it with and you'll go when the whim takes you. It takes time. And intentionality. I promise you, it gets better.
Dating Again After Bad Past Experiences
Someone once asked me how to not let bad experiences in the past override their judgement when meeting someone new. I have found the more important question should be 'how to heal after bad past experiences.'
Healing continues even within relationships.
When it comes to my relationship, despite several occurrences which have highlighted that I am still a healing gal, the recurring nature of it continues to take me by surprise.
Sexual Liberation and Orgasmic Experiences – Part Three
Being a hoe is a transcendant era. It is the realisation that you have the ability to choose, you are allowed to set boundaries and expect them to be respected, communication is normal and essential, feeling emotionally safe is a standard and no-one is ever owed any part of you. Ever.
Sexual Liberation and Orgasmic Experiences – Part Two
1. There is absolutely nothing wrong or shameful about masturbation. 2. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a hoe.
I didn't really click that I could self-sabotage without realising it. It's giving main character, for the plot energy, and this was certainly not what I expected.
Today I turned 30.
Today I turned 30. I am child free. I am not married Today I turned 30 and I am genuinely looking forward to this next era.
I’m Not Always In Love
“To expect being in love 24/7 is a myth. If you tell me otherwise then I’ll take that as the exception to the rule and maintain a discerning suspiciousness of your perception of your relationship.”
How To Find Love
The thing above love is that is starts with you... Singleness was never a choice for me. I desperately wanted a partnership. I still remember praying every night that someone would come into my life. He sent me lessons instead...