An ode to myself and a reminiscing of a similar letter written in Feb 2021: click here to read "I will start by saying how immensely proud I am of you. For still being here. For still trying. For doing your best. Because those are really the only things you can ask of yourself sometimes. [...]
It will be gradual, but you'll stop thinking about how much better activities would be with someone else. You'll start enjoying them even when it's just you. You'll stop delaying things till you have someone to share it with and you'll go when the whim takes you. It takes time. And intentionality. I promise you, it gets better.
How to manifest the love you deserve.
Think of your manifestation list as a guide; both for the universe to funnel an abundance of love towards you, but also as a template for what you are ready and willing to allow yourself to receive.
How to Help Our Loved Ones Heal.
We are invariably intertwined and interlinked with those that are close to us.
Dating Again After Bad Past Experiences
Someone once asked me how to not let bad experiences in the past override their judgement when meeting someone new. I have found the more important question should be 'how to heal after bad past experiences.'
Healing continues even within relationships.
When it comes to my relationship, despite several occurrences which have highlighted that I am still a healing gal, the recurring nature of it continues to take me by surprise.
I didn't really click that I could self-sabotage without realising it. It's giving main character, for the plot energy, and this was certainly not what I expected.
Today I turned 30.
Today I turned 30. I am child free. I am not married Today I turned 30 and I am genuinely looking forward to this next era.
I’m Not Always In Love
“To expect being in love 24/7 is a myth. If you tell me otherwise then I’ll take that as the exception to the rule and maintain a discerning suspiciousness of your perception of your relationship.”
For if you don’t want to have children.
"I was a woman so from birth my designated role was motherhood...For the first time I have realised that I do not have to have children if I do not want to... having a choice should not be a f***ing privilege"