An ode to myself and a reminiscing of a similar letter written in Feb 2021: click here to read "I will start by saying how immensely proud I am of you. For still being here. For still trying. For doing your best. Because those are really the only things you can ask of yourself sometimes. [...]
I want to be a wild girl.
I want to be a wild girl. Tangles in her hair, mud between her toes, freedom in her heart; Unbound, untamed, unhinged.
It will be gradual, but you'll stop thinking about how much better activities would be with someone else. You'll start enjoying them even when it's just you. You'll stop delaying things till you have someone to share it with and you'll go when the whim takes you. It takes time. And intentionality. I promise you, it gets better.
Sexual Liberation and Orgasmic Experiences – Part Three
Being a hoe is a transcendant era. It is the realisation that you have the ability to choose, you are allowed to set boundaries and expect them to be respected, communication is normal and essential, feeling emotionally safe is a standard and no-one is ever owed any part of you. Ever.
Sexual Liberation and Orgasmic Experiences – Part Two
1. There is absolutely nothing wrong or shameful about masturbation. 2. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a hoe.
I didn't really click that I could self-sabotage without realising it. It's giving main character, for the plot energy, and this was certainly not what I expected.
Today I turned 30.
Today I turned 30. I am child free. I am not married Today I turned 30 and I am genuinely looking forward to this next era.
I’m Not Always In Love
“To expect being in love 24/7 is a myth. If you tell me otherwise then I’ll take that as the exception to the rule and maintain a discerning suspiciousness of your perception of your relationship.”
How To Find Love
The thing above love is that is starts with you... Singleness was never a choice for me. I desperately wanted a partnership. I still remember praying every night that someone would come into my life. He sent me lessons instead...
For if you don’t want to have children.
"I was a woman so from birth my designated role was motherhood...For the first time I have realised that I do not have to have children if I do not want to... having a choice should not be a f***ing privilege"