journey – Brittany Tasesa

growth, self-discovery, sexual liberation

Sexual Liberation and Orgasmic Experiences – Part Two

March 27, 2023March 28, 2023by brittanytasesaLeave a Comment

1. There is absolutely nothing wrong or shameful about masturbation. 2. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a hoe.

growth, healing, self-discovery

Navigating Self-Sabotage.

March 20, 2023March 28, 2023by brittanytasesaLeave a Comment

I didn't really click that I could self-sabotage without realising it. It's giving main character, for the plot energy, and this was certainly not what I expected.

growth, healing, self-discovery

Today I turned 30.

March 6, 2023March 28, 2023by brittanytasesaLeave a Comment

Today I turned 30. I am child free. I am not married Today I turned 30 and I am genuinely looking forward to this next era.

growth, healing, love, relationships, self-discovery

I’m Not Always In Love

June 4, 2022March 28, 2023by brittanytasesaLeave a Comment

“To expect being in love 24/7 is a myth. If you tell me otherwise then I’ll take that as the exception to the rule and maintain a discerning suspiciousness of your perception of your relationship.”

dating, growth, love, self-discovery

How To Find Love

May 17, 2022March 28, 2023by brittanytasesaLeave a Comment

The thing above love is that is starts with you... Singleness was never a choice for me. I desperately wanted a partnership. I still remember praying every night that someone would come into my life. He sent me lessons instead...

children, healing, self-discovery

For if you don’t want to have children.

May 4, 2022March 28, 2023by brittanytasesaLeave a Comment

"I was a woman so from birth my designated role was motherhood...For the first time I have realised that I do not have to have children if I do not want to... having a choice should not be a f***ing privilege"

dating, growth, healing, heartbreak, relationships, self-discovery

Paying Homage to this Past Season

September 4, 2021March 28, 2023by brittanytasesa2 Comments

So for this new season; I look forward to having a heart that is more open to love, that is no longer terrified at the thought of a relationship, a heart that looks forward to meeting someone who aligns with them on all levels, that is continually learning and growing, a heart which knows it might make mistakes, but knows that it is always willing to check itself and a heart that will always do its best. There is nothing more that I could ask of myself this season, or the next.

dating, growth, healing, heartbreak, relationships, self-discovery

A Year of Reflections

August 10, 2021March 28, 2023by brittanytasesaLeave a Comment

Catch me reflecting It has been approximately one year since I started my journey of healing. I expected to enter a new vibration, I knew there would be a glow up - though it fucked me off when people would use that line as though to reassure me because it was super invalidating for what [...]

growth, healing, living for yourself, self-discovery

Working Out How to Live For Myself – Part Two

June 21, 2021March 28, 2023by brittanytasesaLeave a Comment

"Living for yourself; fully and wholeheartedly, is a lifelong process. It is a choice you have to actively make every single day"

growth, healing, heartbreak, self-discovery

New Things – A Letter to Myself

February 27, 2021March 28, 2023by brittanytasesa6 Comments

I have 206 entires in my Notes app under the folder labelled "blog". They are quick jottings over the course of two years when I first shot the bullet and started blogging - an external, physical space to pour the multitudes of thoughts and musings - imperative for an over-thinker like myself. A few have [...]